Tips to Keep Your Relationship ChangingWhen you begin a new relationship, one of the things you want to avoid doing is subjecting the other person to the monotony of always the same old story. Over, couples find themselves talking about the same boring topics of the past. They never have a moment to get to know each other. Sometimes it can be difficult to change things when you are in a relationship.
Consider this. What was your favorite book when you were younger? What about your least favorite book? And who were the people you were closest to when you were growing up? Try to name five people who had a major influence on you.
For some reason, the book you were closest to was very similar to the book you loved to read, or the book that you just couldn't put down. These things may seem like silly ideas now, but as you grow older they can be the things that set you apart from others. Think about it.
While you may think you love the first book you read as a teenager, when you look back now you may discover that one day you hated it so much that you chose to skip it. The same thing goes for the one you read when you were a teen. Why didn't you read more when you were young? It seems so long ago. Or maybe you just decided not to.
It is possible that you turned the page because you found something familiar and forgot about it or that you just didn't care anymore. No matter what the reason, you probably enjoyed the book because it was fun and entertaining. After all, wasn't that what you were looking for?
When you began dating someone, you may have talked about the story of the first time you ever saw them. You probably talked about how cute or handsome they were. You may have talked about what you did together or what it was about them that you liked. Sometimes these stories were about those things you did or thought about. Other times they were about how you feel about them.
With each relationship, you want to add a little spice, or you want to make sure that you have some moments where you can say goodbye and let the relationship go. Sometimes that may mean revisiting a story that you both liked. If you found yourself talking about that one a lot, you may want to revisit it. Maybe you don't need to think about the outcome much. Maybe you will remember how much fun you had when you were in that first relationship.
Instead of thinking about what happened in your first relationship, remember the story of the first time you met and how you both ended up being best friends. Try to remember how wonderful it was to know someone so well. If you can bring that feeling back, you may find that you will be able to change your relationship and enjoy the memories you have with your partner over again.